| WATERTOWN,
MA -- It is often said that greatness lies in humbleness.
For 40 years, Rev. Archpriest Arshag Daghlian served his flock
like a good and humble servant, mindful of his allegiance to
God and the church.
More than 200 turned out March 29 at St. Stephen’s Church
in Watertown, Massachusetts to honor the revered clergyman.
As ceremonious as it was, Der Arshag would have preferred something
a bit more sedate—like another Badarak in another church.
“Whatever I have given to this vocation, it has rewarded
me a hundredfold,” he told his audience. “I never
regretted a moment of it.”
At a time in his life when retirement was certainly an option,
off he went from his home in North Andover to various parishes
throughout the country in need of a priest.
If it wasn’t Hartford one week, it was Cleveland the next.
Over the last 19 years, he wound up visiting just as many churches
as far south as Florida and as far west as Illinois and Wisconsin.
Paying no heed to age, he would embark from Logan Airport every
Saturday toward a new destination and return the next day after
performing his duty. If there were a Sunday banquet, he’d
postpone his flight to Monday.
Over that time, he maintained an impeccable record toward consistency.
Blizzards. Hurricane warnings. Delays of every magnitude. Excruciating
inspection lines and lingering layovers. A bout with pneumonia
interfered only once.
“Someone had to do it and I would get the call,”
he said. “I did not want to see any congregation go without
Badarak.”
The 86-year-old can now sit back and reflect upon the memories.
But not exactly. You’ll still find him Sundays at St.
Stephen’s Church performing Confessional Service and doing
what comes naturally while his son John Hovhaness serves as
a deacon and chairs the Board of Trustees.
“He’s been my dad, my mentor, my best friend and
my inspiration in life,” said John, who served as toastmaster.
“Dad is my hero. He had a devoted woman by his side every
step of the way.”
Yeretzgeen Lucy remained the shining star in his constellation.
Often, she would accompany him on his junkets, especially in
New England when auto travel was more compatible than a flight.
“Wherever he has gone, he has brought the vision of Christ
with him,” lauded His Eminence Archbishop Oshagan Choloyan,
who presented Der Arshag with a special citation from His Holiness
Aram I, Catholicos of the Great House of Cilicia. “Der
Arshag has been genuine in every regard, sincere in his mission.
The caring side was always evident with all the elements of
goodness and mercy. I also respect the deep-rooted family structure.”
A video
depicted various stages of Der Arshag’s life, from his
childhood years through his wedding, the birth of five children
and seven grandchildren, his ordination in Whitinsville and
pastorship at St. Paul’s Church in Waukegan, Ill., and
a new parish at St. Gregory Church in North Andover, MA, where
he spent 15 years before his role as an outreach clergy.
At St. Gregory’s, he worked with trustees and various
organizations to pay off the mortgage, helped to renovate the
church hall, expanded the Sunday School, taught Armenian language
to adults, and participated in Ecumenical services with sister
churches throughout Merrimack Valley.
Particular focus was paid to the elderly and infirmed, not to
exclude schoolchildren and those in between.
“His grasp on world affairs is truly remarkable, whether
it’s politics, sports, religion or gardening,” said
his daughter Houry. “Put a tool in his hands and he’ll
fix an engine. He’s played soccer and the accordion, even
rode on a motorcycle and worked as a librarian --- a genuine
Renaissance Man. But above all, his family, his God and his
heritage always took precedence.”
His son-in-law, attorney Richard Sarajian, recalled his wedding
date with Nora and how difficult it was to plan the nuptials.
“We had to find a week when he wasn’t flying anywhere,”
he smiled. “The years of sacrifice and dedication always
manifested themselves, from the time he left Antelias as a married
man with children for Waukegan. He had his own road show and
his destination led to God.”
Other children in attendance were Nora and Sonia. A daughter,
Aida, died in 2000. All five siblings graduated from Merrimack
College in North Andover, not far from the Daghlian home, where
Der Arshag also took theological classes.
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